Love - Lust - Sex - Sensitivity - Fetish - Play
Reflections - planning and the tiresome what... for whom... why...
A good two months this blog is now online and gives me the opportunity to reflect and concretize my thoughts, fetishes, longings. As expected, I am missing something in particular, which I have always enjoyed very much on Facebook: The feedback of the readers, which shows me what arrives and what moves how. With the comment function, I have created the possibility to add my own words to each of my posts, but frankly, I already assumed during the programming that this feature will hardly be used (at first) 😉 Nevertheless, I do not regret having done the work and still do.
This blog is also a way for me to polish up my skills as a web designer and developer in a relatively playful way (I'm actually preparing applications for it again right now), which is why I'll keep implementing new features. A brand new feature is a display filter that only shows violent images when you click on them (I'm really careful to protect minors):
Experience has shown me that the majority of Facebook users are almost completely stuck with this platform and shy away from becoming active elsewhere. Sometimes I even have the impression that they want to "educate" me to give up my blog and put my texts and pictures back on Facebook. I would probably even do that if it were possible. Because what I write here and the photos I post here would lead to me being permanently blocked on Facebook. And censoring it all so that FB accepts it would be a neutering of my creative energy that I will not engage in at all.
I'm also glad to have made myself promise to publish a new post every Friday - because otherwise, the "What... for whom... why..." in my head would probably have led me to just let it go by now. Unfortunately, I quickly lose interest in things where I get the impression that I'm basically just doing them for myself. This distinctive characteristic of my nature has led to the fact that in the past decades I have started a lot of unbelievably motivated things - only to let them disappear into oblivion (whereby often enough others were the beneficiaries of my preliminary work).
Now I just kick myself at the latest Friday afternoon in the ass to publish something. And in fact, I've only had to dig two articles out of my archive so far 😁 But the energy for an intensive article has to come from somewhere... and without impulses from outside, I'll burn out at some point.
If you want to do me a favor and help shape this blog a little, then hit the keys and write comments under this intro or the articles. Even better would be guest posts, which I would love to give a platform here. I'm always interested in who reads this and what thoughts come up. True colorful creativity is rarely created alone.
Why I of all people write a blog about passion, sex and everything around it? Because until a few years ago I myself was still incredibly clueless, preferred to put myself in cuddly dream worlds and was a sweet, yet inconspicuous sexually almost completely inexperienced cutey.